Dirty talk - how to talk dirty during sex, on the phone and in chat

Dirty Talk - Here's how to say dirty things during sex and the things you can say to your partner outside of the bedroom to increase arousal.

Dirty talk may feel strange at first when you think about how to say the perfect dirty things to your partner. Relax a little - dirty talk isn't complicated, and what matters most is that you feel comfortable doing it. Here are the golden rules of dirty talk:

1. don't overthink it.

Dirty talk doesn't have to be super creative, but it should feel good to you and your partner. The dirty things you say to your partner should feel natural and flow into the moment.

2. take it slow.

Do it at your own pace. It's better to share your fantasies in chat first if you don't yet dare to talk dirty face to face.

3. have fun

Dirty talk should enhance your sexual experience, not hinder it. Don't put pressure on yourself. The more relaxed the better the experience will be for everyone involved.

4. make it uncomplicated

Keep your language simple and don't use too many details. You don't have to go into detail to get your partner hot. Something as simple as "I love your body" can get the ball rolling. And if you want to throw in a few adjectives, general terms like "fat", "huge" and "wet" work well.

5 Communication is everything

How comfortable you feel in your relationship has a lot to do with what you are willing to try sexually. Talk to your partner about your interest in dirty talk beforehand! This is a good way to reduce anxiety.

6. don't judge

When you start dirty talk, your relationship can develop a greater sense of intimacy. Dirty talk is not about being gross, crude or vulgar. Rather, it's about it being arousing. What makes dirty talk dirty is the sexual arousal you feel when you hear it. Stimulate your partner's imagination instead of suppressing it.


Things to say during dirty talk

"You are so sexy. I love it when you're naked."

"I want to feel how wet you are."

"I love it when you take my *** in your mouth."

"I want to touch your *** with my ***."

"I can't wait to see your lips around my ***."

"What do you want me to do to you?"

"Be a good little slut and spread your legs for me."

"I can't wait to put my *** inside you."

"It feels so hot when I penetrate you."

"I'm going to stuff your *** with my ***."

"I'm going to stuff my *** inside you."

"If you don't behave, I'm going to pound my *** into you."

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